The Declaration of Family Rights
As many of you the Family Rights Act is a big step. It would fully recognize and protect the basic Civil/Human Right we all have to be parents to our own children, and for our children to have BOTH parents in their lives. Perhaps the introduction of a Law (even at the State level), that directly addresses the concept of equality in parenting might help. What better place to start than at birth? Shouldn't biological parents have the "right" to know they have a child? John Murtari, Group Coordinator, has been involved in discussion with his member of the State Legislature (New York), Assemblyman Robert Oaks (click for his website). You can read a complete history below. John has spoken with him in person several times and also members of his staff. They are all very nice people, but right now he feels there would be strong political risk in such a Bill and will not introduce it. I hope that through our positive efforts we can convince him otherwise. Obviously, in almost all cases a mother knows that she is going to be parent and this Act hopes to bring equality to fathers; however, as science advances we may soon find the ability to take an 'egg' and bring it to term -- and perhaps ignore the biological mother. But remember, our group goal is to ensure we are all considered Fit & Equal parents. The discussion of this Act would help not only Fathers, but Mothers, and also those who have suffered from false child abuse allegations. Why? It will get people thinking about Family Rights and how those rights should be recognized and protected. None of the Act is 'proprietary' -- anyone is welcome to modify it and use it within your state.
HELP JOHN in JAIL: When jailed (check below), John welcomes your letters (you can write to him at: John Murtari, P.O. Box 477, Lyons, NY 14489). Your calls/letters in support are welcome to Assemblyman Oaks office, and also these officials. Your messages help insure he is treated fairly. DA Richard Healey, Hall of Justice, Suite 202, Lyons, NY 14489 (Phone: 315-946-5905 / Fax: 315-946-5911)Village Justice Nicholas Forgione, 79 William St., Lyons, NY 14489 (Phone: 315-946-4565)
Recent
History (most current info at
top): Your participation and support is invaluable - click here for an earlier message. Click
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john at: jmurtari@AKidsRight.Org
January 28th- John
Murtari was arrested yesterday afternoon for graffiti, carrying graffiti
material and trespassing while standing on the sidewalk in
front of the Old County Court House in Lyons, NY. He had written
"MR. OAKS HELP FAMILY RIGHTS" on the brick building with children's
chalk earlier that morning. (more)
A lot of people attend the meeting and it should help get the message across.
January 21st & 26th- John returned to the building on both days to continue efforts for reform and added another message to the outside wall. He also wrote another letter to Assemblyman Robert Oaks asking him to please take action of Family Rights issues. John included a photo collage of the group efforts over the past few months. (click here for full size image)
January 20th - John returned to the Courthouse and wrote "Mr.
Oaks - Help Family Rights" in much bigger lettering with kid's chalk and
next went in and told security. He then spent about an hour outside in silent
picket before going home. The January 19th - John returned to the Courthouse, wrote "Mr. Oaks - Help Family Rights" on about 7 different areas on the outside walls with kid's chalk and then went in and told security. People ask me how I can keep doing this. It's pretty easy when you consider the indignity I have been through. FIRST, I've been very fortunate to keep a strong relationship with my son -- that is something so many parents lose and any parents nightmare (I should 'give back' by trying to help others). SECOND, I've struggled with a child support disaster. I live in a rural community and have had my license suspended for over a year, forced to walk. I hope to get some justice from an Appellate court as I make a motion to have it restored. January 12th, 13th, & 14th - John returned to the Courthouse, wrote "Mr. Oaks - Help Family Rights" in a different area each day. He then went in and told security. On Thursday, the 14th, I
knew I wouldn't be back later in the week -- so I went in a told security
that if they gave me a bucket of water & a brush, I'd remove the wall
writing that had accumulated over the week. They told me not to worry
about it. I plan to do a bit more next week. January 6th - All four pending charges are dismissed. John's assigned counsel, Attorney Ms. Denise Munson, has done an excellent job in advocating for his rights as a defendant. She submitted a very effective motion (text) quoting good case law and asking for dismissal of the four pending charges based on the idea that "chalk can't damage" and there was no "intent to damage". The DAs office concurred with the motion and also agreed with dismissal. I was very happy with the result. I had been ready to resume my activities on the following week and having this decided first should make things 'simpler'. As part of what I can only call 'harassment/intimidation' the DA's office had earlier requested a psychological examination over my competency to stand trial. This was complete in early December and you are welcome to read two reports by both a Psychologist and Psychiatrist. December 7th, 15th - Silent picket outside the Courthouse at 2 PM as part of "Human Rights Week."
This was setup the night before. Mr. Moran had seen an arrest report for chalk in one of the local papers and thought it sounded strange. He contacted me and setup the on-air interview. He was a good host, the segment is about 15 minutes -- it was cut short because of other schedule conflicts. December 1st - John again returned to the Courthouse. He held a silent picket for a while and then used kid's chalk to leave a message on the building. He wrote it once and then went inside the building and told security. He was arrested, but then in a bit of a surprise, he was released with just an appearance ticket. His next court date is Dec 9th. Click here to read some of your FEEDBACK on this activity. November 25th - John was taken from jail to Village Court and he was released. The next court date was Dec 9. John does plan on resuming his activities again next Monday, Nov 30th. This was a bit confusing. The DA wanted me released on my own recognizance (which basically means we trust that you will show up at your next Court date). The Judge said no and ordered me on the pre-trial release program which is sort of an easy-probation. Conditions can be set on your behavior, required to call in periodically, etc.. (I normally never agree to those terms). They did release me from the jail even though I refused to sign any program forms and they could arrest me at any time. The 'system' really isn't designed for this type of activity from a non-criminal. November 23rd - In the afternoon, John returned to the building and again used kid's chalk to leave a message on the building. He wrote it once and then went inside the building and told security. They took a look and in about 30 minutes the local police showed up. He was taken into custody and charged with a misdemeanor, in violation of Section 145.60(2) of the New York Penal Law: "No person shall make graffiti of any type on any building, public or private....." He was arraigned by Village Justice Forgione, a $1000 bail was set, and John was jailed again. November 23rd - In the morning two other parents (Mark Hough & Scott Rhodes) joined John is a visit to Assemblyman's Oaks office and had a good conversation with an aid. They then went to the Courthouse at 11 AM and carried on a silent picket outside for about an hour. John also sent a letter regarding parental rights to Assemblyman Oaks. He also continues to write local Family Court Judge Sirkin regarding a delayed support decision and the injustice hurting his family and many others. November 18th - In a bit of a surprise, John was
released. Due to a death in the Family, John will not be returning to
continue his efforts until Monday, November 23rd. We'd like to
get another Mom & Dad there to show support. November 16th - John returned to the Wayne County courthouse to continue writing "HELP FAMILY RIGHTS" on the building. He was arrested, assigned a $500 bail by Village Justice Nicholas Forgione, and incarcerated at the Wayne County jail in Lyons. For more information visit: Parents rights activist Murtari imprisoned for chalk protest November 13th - Due to some legal paperwork John had to complete
for a prior employee he will not be resuming his efforts today -- next scheduled
day is Monday, Nov 16th. I DON'T WANT TO GO BACK
THERE ALONE TOMORROW! There will be another arrest and most likely
jail. I would They allowed me to fill the sidewalk with writing, but if more people show up they may threaten arrest again -- we must have the quiet courage of our convictions and Faith in the power of the love we have for our kids. http://www.AKidsRight.Org/civil.htm This is not about winning or what other's may do in response. Actions such as these first convince "us" that what we want is worth the potential sacrifice. Folks, don't get me wrong. I understand when people can't join the effort. We all have a lot of personal issues to deal with. I have failed to respond to other requests for help because I was too busy. But I'm also confident that with time -- parents will start to come forward. All I can do is ask... (click here to read complete message) November 10th - John returned in the morning and continued writing his message on the sidewalk outside the building. In the afternoon he brought about 15 copies of the "Declaration of Family Rights" and taped them to the outside. They were there for a while and then taken down by security. A photo of the poster is at right, you can click for a PDF version November 9th - John returned to the building with eleven small posters asking the Assemblyman to "HELP FAMILY RIGHTS". . He taped the sheets of paper to several windows along the front of the building. Building security told him he couldn't do that and took them down -- John placed a few more and then quietly walked outside the building. November 4th, 6th - John returned to the building and continued writing. John stayed outside from 2-4 pm and then left. Nov 5th was rained out). November 2nd - John returned to the building and continued writing. He was told he could write on the sidewalk, but would have to clean it up before he left for the day. If he did not clean it, he was told an arrest warrant would be issued. John stayed outside from 2-4 pm and then left, with the message still on the ground. (the Court House was closed for election day, Nov 3). October 28-30, 2009 - Rain & wet sidewalk delay!
February 13, 2009 & Feb 17th - Group coordinator, John Murtari, decided to walk inside the new County Court House in Lyons. Security staff was polite and John quietly walked around for an hour before leaving. He held a small placard with pictures of parents and children. The message, "Mr. Oaks, Help Us!" (photo above). February 10, 2009 - John took a 'walk' inside the historic Court House in Lyons (now used mostly for County offices and meetings). For two hours he walked in the hallway of the building holding a small placard with pictures of parents and children. Feb 4-9, 2009 - John changed his location to downtown Lyons and outside the County Court House. Please contact John if you wish to participate and join in the effort. January 27, 2009 - At 2pm, John Murtari walked to Assemblyman Oaks' office to publicly promote the "You're a Parent Notification Act." He walked outside the offices for about two hours (lucky it was a sunny day, temperature in the mid 20s). One of the staff members did come out and told John he was welcome to come into the building to warm up. Weather permitting, John plans on returning each day at 2pm for a similar two hour vigil. January 9, 2009 - John Murtari, group coordinator, sends
another letter to NY State Assemblyman Robert Oaks. Final planning
is done and a start date of Jan 27 (rescheduled from
Jan 20 because of inauguration) is set. Please
contact John if you wish to participate. April 4-5 2007 - The resolution is considered in the Rules & Legislative Committee and also the Social Services Committee of the Wayne County Board of Supervisors.. There is quite a difference in how it is received and handled by the two committee chairmans, John writes Mr. Hoffman again a few days later to express some concerns and asks for the opportunity to address the full Board well before any final vote. This is denied and no vote occurs. Mar 12, 2007 - To increase public knowledge of this basic Civil Right, John wrote a letter to Mr. James Hoffman, Chairman of the Wayne County Board of Supervisors. This is a small rural county in upstate New York where John resides in Lyons. There is no county legislature, each of the elected Town Supervisors also server on the County Board. The resolution is much simpler at this level, it just asks for State and Federal Legislators to draft such legislation. Feb 2007 - John meets personally with Assemblyman Oaks at one of his public 'office hours'. There was concern about potential opposition to such a bill and they discussed different approaches and concepts involved with the bill. The meeting lasted almost an hour and the Assemblyman told John he would be able to follow up on the bill more after the State Budget was passed. Jan 3/8, 2007 - John follows up again with the Lyon's staff of Assemblyman Oaks to find out what progress is being made. He is told they are checking. It appears the Assemblyman does not have a position on the bill. John is trying to arrange an appointment at his local office. May 15, 2006 - Another letter is written to Assemblyman Robert Oaks regarding the need for the act and a hope it will be acted on quickly. We are told that the wording of the bill is reviewed by legal staff used by the Assembly to review bills for any legal obstacles. May 11,2006 - After speaking with the Assemblyman and some aids a DRAFT of the bill wording and a sponsors memo is sent to Assemblyman Oaks. It is late in the session and this bill does introduce new concepts, but we hope discussion can begin now.
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