From: John Murtari (jmurtari@AKidsRight.org)
Date: Sun Oct 25 2009 - 09:17:23 EDT
AKidsRight.Org - All the information in our messages if FREE for reuse as you desire. Subscribe/unsubscribe info at end of this message. ========================================= Good People & People of Faith, This message contains info on: 1. Murtari - arrest expected Monday. 2. Why risk jail? 1. Murtari - arrest expected Monday. ------------------------------------ Group coordinator, John Murtari, has been trying to show his state Assemblyman the importance of recognizing Family Rights -- beginning with the right to know you're a parent. He's writing a simple message, "Mr. Oaks - HELP FAMILY RIGHTS," with kid's chalk on the sidewalk. Click on the link below for a pretty comprehensive story (including pictures) from Examiner.com: http://www.examiner.com/x-15873-Family-Rights-Examiner%7Ey2009m10d24-Activist-Murtari-resumes-Youre-a-Parent-Notification-Act-campaign-in-Lyons John <jmurtari@AKidsRight.Org> would certainly welcome anyone who wishes to visit Lyons, NY on Monday afternoon. He plans on moving his activity to downtown, outside the Village Offices at 76 William Street, at 2 PM. You can contact Mr. Oaks by: website: http://assembly.state.ny.us/mem/?ad=128 email: oaksr@assembly.state.ny.us phone: 315-946-5166 write: Assemblyman Robert Oaks, 10 Leach Road, Lyons, NY 14489 2. Why risk jail? ----------------- I wrote this before starting my NonViolent Action campaign. I wanted to have something ready in case I am arrested and jailed. http://www.AKidsRight.Org/parental_notification Why risk jail & who should? --------------------------- This message is for those who really got burned by the system. Saw your family destroyed; watched yourself treated with indignity and sometimes abused by a system which just didn't care. Those whose kids didn't "turn around" and come back after they got older. Parents who never healed by just forgetting and accepting the injustice done. It's the first thing you think about every day -- and may always be. A nightmare and you can't wake up! You get angry, but find no relief. In the long hours of the night - you sometimes cry, but nothing has changed by morning. You want to have Faith in a loving God, but it just doesn't make any sense. This message is for you. About responding to injustice with self-sacrifice and love. The essence of NonViolent Action. What motivates someone to take these risks when, quite frankly, the chances of anything really changing look pretty small! My peace -------- I've been fortunate to keep a close relationship with my son, Domenic, through it all. As I've said before, my actions are a way of expressing my thanks and giving back. But I was always disgusted by the separation, all the good times that were missed, the indignity & injustice. I've heard so many of your really horrible stories and was frightened by what could have happened to me. I really burned at times! I took NonViolent Action to help change the system, http://www.AKidsRight.Org/events.htm -- but there was an amazing side effect. I was still angry at what happened, but the fire -- that was consuming me -- went out. Walking into a building holding a picture of my son; writing "I LOVE YOU" with chalk on the ground -- and telling the system, "you can't stop me" from showing my love and calling attention to injustice. Ready to sit in a jail cell with trust in our Loving Father. I sleep like a baby (mostly!). God doesn't need me to fix this injustice. I've taken the most powerful & peaceful action I can -- which forces me to live & affirm my Faith. That we are all brothers & sisters, but just don't know it. I pray for reconciliation with my former spouse -- to be open to the possibility they may change and to see my hidden faults & failings. I occasionally write her and say, "I accept equal responsibility for whatever went wrong so many years ago -- can we put this behind us?" Lastly, and with humility, I also acknowledge the many errors I've made through the years. I'm not perfect and don't have just 'resume quality' faults. The most effect penance is the one we impose on ourselves from our own free will. Worry about the outcome? A little bit, but only when I lose my sense of Faith in a Loving Father that cares for me more than even the love I have for my own son. How could anything bad happen? If you want more thoughts on this, keep reading... "Nature abhors a vacuum" ------------------------ You get a 110,000 hits on Google if you search for that. Mostly science -- add the word "metaphysics" and you still get about 5,600 hits. Why bring this up? It's an analogy, something to think about. "Nonviolent resistance ... is based on the conviction that the universe is on the side of justice. Consequently, the believer in nonviolence has deep faith in the future ...[and] can accept suffering without retaliation. For he knows that in his struggle for justice he has cosmic companionship." Martin Luther King http://www.AKidsRight.Org/civil.htm Injustice is a vacuum, a void -- how do we "fill" it? ----------------------------------------------------- What do I see mostly? Parent's who have been so abused and traumatized by the system, they just want to fight a battle and kick back! "Some men can't even stand to look at a scene of mother and child happily together without some anger -- b%tch! Dirty Feminists! And we're sure many women have experienced the same after seeing THEIR child "taken" by a former husband... abusive control freak! Stupid Masculinist!" After that anger and in private, just depression and tears .... occasionally, someone does take physical action of the most unfortunate type and we have murder, suicide, or both. Nothing to help reform: it's about I, Me, and Mine! What are you willing to sacrifice to make things better for others? The Parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector ------------------------------------------------- I know many of you have heard this one a thousand times! Read it one more time, and put yourself in one of the roles -- and then your spouse, judge, lawyer, social worker in the other. Who do you want to be? Two men went up into the temple to pray; one was a Pharisee, and the other was a tax collector. The Pharisee stood and prayed to himself like this: "God, I thank you, that I am not like the rest of men, extortioners, unrighteous, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week. I give tithes of all I get." But the tax collector, standing far away, wouldn't even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, "God, be merciful to me, a sinner!" I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but he who humbles himself will be exalted." Luke 18:9-14 My choice of best 'filling' for a vacuum of injustice? ----------------------------------------------------- Again, humility and our demonstrations of sacrifice & love for the sake of our children. To make the system better for others -- even if it is too late for us. Powerful stuff! http://www.AKidsRight.Org/approach.htm Forget name calling and the insults and fighting-fire-with-fire. Focus on the one thing we can (sometimes) control -- ourselves and our actions. Most of my actions were done alone. You don't need a crowd to be effective in bringing peace to your own heart. Once that changes, it will be amazing how quickly the rest follows. -- John Murtari ____________________________________________________________________ Coordinator AKidsRight.Org jmurtari@AKidsRight.Org A Kid's Right to BOTH parents" (315) 944-0999(x-211) http://www.AKidsRight.Org/ ========================================= http://www.AKidsRight.Org/ A Kid's Right to Both Parents! --- Newsletter mailing list Newsletter@kids-right.org http://kids-right.org/mailman/listinfo/newsletter
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