From: John Murtari (jmurtari@akidsright.org)
Date: Sun Apr 08 2012 - 17:56:30 EDT
AKidsRight.Org - All the information in our messages if FREE for reuse as you desire. Subscribe/unsubscribe info at end of this message. ========================================= Good People & People of Faith, A brief message for Easter Sunday. What does it have to do with Family Law reform anyway? Aren't we now a more "spiritual" people? Free of the constraints and mantras of "organized religion?" Only you know that. If we skip the whole 'resurrection' story, does the life & death of Jesus Christ have any meaning for us and reform? I guess it all depends on what you believe reform to be? If it's just about YOU and getting YOUR kids back from that OTHER parent -- probably not much. If your goal in reform is to get 'better training' for Judges and Lawyers and Social Workers, so they can be more sensitive in deciding what is best for your child -- probably not. If you'd be satisfied with a 'rebuttable presumption' of shared parenting -- no. They didn't crucify Jesus because he wanted 'tweaks' to the system. He believed in big change, fundamental change. He wanted to break through barriers and change how people thought about themselves and each other. So many of us give up because: 1) We're only ONE. 2) We don't have a LOT of money. 3) We don't have mass media support. 4) We don't have support from celebrities. 5) We don't have the support of politicians. Good thing he didn't feel that way! He did have three things we are badly lacking. The amazing thing about this-- they are within the grasp of each of us. Not next year, next month, or tomorrow -- we could have them today! 1) He really believed. 2) He had Faith in what could happen. 3) He was willing to make personal sacrifice. So...... the first step is belief. Do you believe you and your spouse are both considered Fit & Equal parents (equal in terms of both physical and legal custody? Do you believe if anyone (a spouse, relative, social services) wishes to challenge that, you have: 1) The right to counsel. 2) The right to be presumed a fit parent, innocent, and deserving of an equal relationship with your kids. 3) The right to protection of a criminal jury and a unanimous verdict. The "state" needs to prove you were a demonstrated serious and intentional threat to your child's safety and that you acted with mal-intent towards your children. Words & Belief --------------------- As a group we can work on the other items, but we first have to believe. We need words that give meaning to the yearnings of our hearts. Words that will give us Faith. Words that will take on substance and become reality. That might even make us sacrifice.... http://www.NationalPLC.Org/ -- John Murtari ____________________________________________________________________ Coordinator AKidsRight.Org jmurtari@AKidsRight.Org "A Kid's Right to BOTH parents" Toll Free (877) 635-1968(x-211) http://www.AKidsRight.Org/ ========================================= http://www.AKidsRight.Org/ A Kid's Right to Both Parents! --- Newsletter@kids-right.org To REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THE LIST go to: http://kids-right.org/mailman/listinfo/newsletter
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